I have been understanding Karma for a while now. Ever since Saturn came to visit me in 2012 and I made the biggest move out of my own prison and left my job, I have danced with the knowledge of the power of Saturn. So as I approach my life today and the relationships in it, i take responsibility for all of them. Some might find this to be unbearable and slightly sadistic, but there is ultimate and infinite power when you are capable of seeing that you are the karma, everything you created does come back to you. I approach my relationship with the understanding necessary and now I think its important to be the change that I wish to see in them.
I want so much for others to "get" what I'm doing, but maybe its the very fact that they don't get it that makes me do it. And for my relationship, where he is discovering his own path, that I encourage him to go at it alone. For it is my karma that the attachment has become so strong that it is literally suffocating. And for another time of reflection I get a dose of my own spell. So I stick with the relationship in the knowing of the karmic reward that comes with such a kind of love. Love that is learning to let go of conditions and take responsibility for what it has created. I desire to look back at these times and see it was a sliver of a phase and that ultimately it was totally worth it. And I already say it is so; so it is. In fact we are merely steps away from collecting what is due. So I want him to see what i'm doing is real to me, but I don't have to because its important for both of us to experience what it feels like to go down our own paths. And I want to be the change I want to see by supporting him on his individual path. The more I do this, the more I feel the new phase of this relationship.
What is interesting to me is the constant denial of Music being metaphysical. But not just music, but the whole industry. My witches (wise women) get it. They know everything is thickly coded, but it is my musician "friends" who seem to be stuck in the old traditional Capricorn way of seeing the industry. Fit into a mold, invest money, find a niche etc. The funny thing is I do see what they see. It's just do they see what I see? That when metaphysics is applied, all of these other aspects of "industry" come together like a dance. I see now that there is much work to do. I have found my calling. For it has always been there waiting for me to find it. The true spirituality behind the vibrations and energetic frequencies of music. The enchanting poetry and spell with the lyrics, are all layers of the "industry" metaphysically that i have come to explore. Now I give myself the right to do so freely, publicly and unapologetically. "They" think they have it all figured out, but live lives lost. Maybe I do not have the fanciest car or house to live in. Maybe my edges aren't "laid" and shit, but I got knowledge and it feeds my soul. I got the gas. I have the key! The DARK HORSE is the answer to the problems in my world.
I want to learn to navigate this knowledge to help others while helping myself gain a better life. I do deserve the home that suits me and it is in the journey towards a better living environment that I learn even more about the metaphysics; therefore I am eternally grateful. I am so filled with gratitude for the people i am meeting everyday who remind me of who i am. I am grateful for the situations that I feel are burdens because they pressure me to become clearer and more refined in my shine. I desire to open doors for others. I take responsibility for the role i have chosen in this life. I will not be saddened when others mis-understand my energy; I will merely see that they are not ready. Just as I was once not ready. I will not judge others on their individual paths, even if it is in oppositional direction of mine. I will help them to love their own individual roles so that I too can learn to love mine. I often still feel feelings of jealousy, but i am learning to alchemize it into changing my position from follower to creator. This is why I overstand the jealousy that is directed at me. The more that I experience all aspects of human life, the more i can take from it and put it in my magick.
I feel everyone has a story, from birth to the present moment, we are trying to figure out what the full story is.
Friday, July 15, 2016
Wednesday, June 15, 2016
Changing Lanes & The Power of staying in your OWN
I never quite understood what it meant when people told me to stay in your own lane. As a natural rebel, I have understood this to be s form of control and it wasn't something I was down for. But as we mature and learn more of what this really means, we come to a place where the things we didnt understand come pouring in with light and knowledge.
Lately my endeavors and rituals on facebook have been agitating me as I see other starseeds doing their thang, but not always taking responsibility for the response. I have observed that they merely want people to yes them all the way to success. And I have found some situations, okay... let me be better with my words.. I have judged some situations to be completely reckless. Now, i too am reckless, so already i'm making a double judgement. But what really was the problem for me was that when I would respectfully disagree, they would not give me the answer I was looking for... which ultimately was compliance. And then in great epiphanies that come to me on the regular, i realized that I cannot control others and when i get out of my lane, thats what ends up happening.
So when someone says "Stay in your own lane" it may not be to have control over you, but it teaches you to have control over yourself and your own work, agenda, vision etc. Often when you start changing lanes, is when you begin to crash into others. So its imperative for those who are like me with the karma, crash identity to really embrace the beauty of driving down solo in our own lane. Only then can we learn the beauty of control, which is to manifest your own destiny.
I have begun a very intimate relationship with the darker side of me. I recognize that this side of me unleashes itself constantly on facebook, because it can be a low vibrational platform sometimes, depending on the state of my own mind. So often, if not in the right state, I know myself to be provoked by jealousy, which is really a disease of the mind in being a follower. Sometimes it is amazing to be a follower and you are inspired by others like how i have been for several youtubers, 13signsastrology, fleurbrun, Makalesi and so many others. But often, when we are following people who are not at our frequency it can cause us to have lower feelings which are really signals alerting us to get out of the following role. This leader is no longer serving you, and its time to become your own leader. It is time to create your path. To create you own lane.
Now as I see some people on my facebook growing and changing their paths, opening up to ideas and frequencies that i have been following, they begin to resonate with me in a different way. Thus, I realize that everyone has their own journey. And when I release the need to control other people's journey, I am instantly open and free to operate in mine. I realize that I have been feeling limited due to the nature of some ideas. But truly when I get back in my own lane I see clearly that what I am doing, and have been doing is solid, light spreading work. Just like how others are doing on my timelines. So its imperative for me to shine brighter, to do what I have been called to do, which is not like any other. I am learning that a "following" is not important to grow as much as my own lane will. When I cave out a path, and leave a trail behind, others will follow and i will be fulfilled in learning that I have had an impact on others. So now I have a new way of looking at things.
My code of ethic for staying in my own lane resides in various understandings and morally laid out plans. I will continue to do what I desire to do, despite my fears or what others will think of me. I will take calculated action, and be integral with my words, but I will not stunt or slow myself down to a stop anymore. I will not change lanes, unless I feel its time for me to react or dodge from others, or take an initial move in order to protect my work. I do not desire to stunt others and their work only help and encourage them. If my words are not helpful or encouraging then I will transform them into fresh energy to use for myself.
Lately my endeavors and rituals on facebook have been agitating me as I see other starseeds doing their thang, but not always taking responsibility for the response. I have observed that they merely want people to yes them all the way to success. And I have found some situations, okay... let me be better with my words.. I have judged some situations to be completely reckless. Now, i too am reckless, so already i'm making a double judgement. But what really was the problem for me was that when I would respectfully disagree, they would not give me the answer I was looking for... which ultimately was compliance. And then in great epiphanies that come to me on the regular, i realized that I cannot control others and when i get out of my lane, thats what ends up happening.
So when someone says "Stay in your own lane" it may not be to have control over you, but it teaches you to have control over yourself and your own work, agenda, vision etc. Often when you start changing lanes, is when you begin to crash into others. So its imperative for those who are like me with the karma, crash identity to really embrace the beauty of driving down solo in our own lane. Only then can we learn the beauty of control, which is to manifest your own destiny.
I have begun a very intimate relationship with the darker side of me. I recognize that this side of me unleashes itself constantly on facebook, because it can be a low vibrational platform sometimes, depending on the state of my own mind. So often, if not in the right state, I know myself to be provoked by jealousy, which is really a disease of the mind in being a follower. Sometimes it is amazing to be a follower and you are inspired by others like how i have been for several youtubers, 13signsastrology, fleurbrun, Makalesi and so many others. But often, when we are following people who are not at our frequency it can cause us to have lower feelings which are really signals alerting us to get out of the following role. This leader is no longer serving you, and its time to become your own leader. It is time to create your path. To create you own lane.
Now as I see some people on my facebook growing and changing their paths, opening up to ideas and frequencies that i have been following, they begin to resonate with me in a different way. Thus, I realize that everyone has their own journey. And when I release the need to control other people's journey, I am instantly open and free to operate in mine. I realize that I have been feeling limited due to the nature of some ideas. But truly when I get back in my own lane I see clearly that what I am doing, and have been doing is solid, light spreading work. Just like how others are doing on my timelines. So its imperative for me to shine brighter, to do what I have been called to do, which is not like any other. I am learning that a "following" is not important to grow as much as my own lane will. When I cave out a path, and leave a trail behind, others will follow and i will be fulfilled in learning that I have had an impact on others. So now I have a new way of looking at things.
My code of ethic for staying in my own lane resides in various understandings and morally laid out plans. I will continue to do what I desire to do, despite my fears or what others will think of me. I will take calculated action, and be integral with my words, but I will not stunt or slow myself down to a stop anymore. I will not change lanes, unless I feel its time for me to react or dodge from others, or take an initial move in order to protect my work. I do not desire to stunt others and their work only help and encourage them. If my words are not helpful or encouraging then I will transform them into fresh energy to use for myself.
Monday, June 6, 2016
DAWNING: When the Light seeps in the Cracks
I have been waking up with a special angelic message. It is as if my higher self is talking to me, whispering to me the secrets of the universe. I try my best to hold on. I typically get the big picture, but I can't remember all the details she said just before my eyelids open to the morning. I have grown accustomed to her company, as Jupiter transiting in my 12th house, is revealing to me the angels amongst us.
I have always had a divine understanding of spirit, but it has not always been something I could fully grasp. Even now, i'm looking for something, but I don't know what it is. I hear spirit more than I see it. I hear it in the birds, I hear it in the trees, and I hear it in my ears as I arise. I believe spirit is always there, always with me, but I just never was listening for it.
Constantly swarmed with thoughts about what I need to be doing, I have often found myself going in circles. I feel my potential. Its like a divinely, rich cup of coffee waiting to be sipped. I see the possibilities of my future, and I want to manifest it so bad. But the thoughts seem to slip away from me just as quickly as they come. I feel I need to hold a 'thought trap' in my pocket just so as it comes I can record it and never forget. There is always a part of me that wants control and organization. And there is another part of me battling with living in the moment. I feel there is a deep fear that I will have wasted my life away if not seizing the opportunities. And when I do, seize those opportunities, I still feel like I am coming up short.
I'm always trying to find the rhythm to my days. When do I clean, when do I play, when do I work. I inherently desire to play and live life like i'm always on vacay. But, too much play and I wake up to the stench of all that I have neglected. There is apart of me that desires to live light and free... enjoying every action that I take, embracing the memories. And there is apart of me that is disgusted at the actions I miss, the opportunities that keep passing me by, and the constant insecurity that I'm not really sure what i'm doing. I feel the weight of my actions as I see no one is really giving me the support I need. So much need that i have. Sometimes I wish I did not need anything at all.
I am hoping that in this year, in this time, I can find my bliss. I'm so tired of not knowing. I am ready to have the sure knowing that my life is important.
I have always had a divine understanding of spirit, but it has not always been something I could fully grasp. Even now, i'm looking for something, but I don't know what it is. I hear spirit more than I see it. I hear it in the birds, I hear it in the trees, and I hear it in my ears as I arise. I believe spirit is always there, always with me, but I just never was listening for it.
Constantly swarmed with thoughts about what I need to be doing, I have often found myself going in circles. I feel my potential. Its like a divinely, rich cup of coffee waiting to be sipped. I see the possibilities of my future, and I want to manifest it so bad. But the thoughts seem to slip away from me just as quickly as they come. I feel I need to hold a 'thought trap' in my pocket just so as it comes I can record it and never forget. There is always a part of me that wants control and organization. And there is another part of me battling with living in the moment. I feel there is a deep fear that I will have wasted my life away if not seizing the opportunities. And when I do, seize those opportunities, I still feel like I am coming up short.
I'm always trying to find the rhythm to my days. When do I clean, when do I play, when do I work. I inherently desire to play and live life like i'm always on vacay. But, too much play and I wake up to the stench of all that I have neglected. There is apart of me that desires to live light and free... enjoying every action that I take, embracing the memories. And there is apart of me that is disgusted at the actions I miss, the opportunities that keep passing me by, and the constant insecurity that I'm not really sure what i'm doing. I feel the weight of my actions as I see no one is really giving me the support I need. So much need that i have. Sometimes I wish I did not need anything at all.
I am hoping that in this year, in this time, I can find my bliss. I'm so tired of not knowing. I am ready to have the sure knowing that my life is important.
Wednesday, April 6, 2016
My forgotten Chosen Path
This blog has been through many different paths as I've merely reflected upon the different journeys i've begun. But truly the ancestors and guides have reminded me that it all started with Music.
And its so interesting, that at this point in my life, I no longer have the need to be the famous superstar singer that I thought I was gunning for all this time. This is because I've learned how music has been my most spiritual tool and guide throughout my life, and it no longer has the longing to be famous for riches and fame sake. Its truest gift has been to open my heart to unconditional love and acceptance of my unique self and others. It is my bible. It is my coping mechanism. And it is my healing.
But there is a part of me that is always longing to keep music in my life and at the forefront of what I do. It has now grounded itself in confidence that it no longer needs approval of a grammy award to be what it is for me; to be what it always has been for me in fact. And my entire relationship with my music, especially now is divine, and apart of me. So why is it that I keep leaving it behind now?
I believe that it is always in my pocket, guiding me and when I put it in front of me it will guide me continuously. But maybe i'm afraid to put it out in front of me because I know it is mine. But thats whats beautiful about being an Artist is that even though it was yours, you share it with the world for them to see you was there; you lived. And my music tells a story, of me once where I needed something and of now... where I have found and discovered it. It really is a beautiful thing. I see now that the Universe wants me to remember to never forget my first love.
It all started with music. I used to tell my subconscious that I would never forget to keep my music as my roots. I never wanted to be the kid in music school that changed her career path and left music behind me. I always believed I would become the singer I desired. And even though, I didn't know what it would look like, i feel I see now what it is. I see that its the time i've been waiting for...
All I have to do is remember.
And its so interesting, that at this point in my life, I no longer have the need to be the famous superstar singer that I thought I was gunning for all this time. This is because I've learned how music has been my most spiritual tool and guide throughout my life, and it no longer has the longing to be famous for riches and fame sake. Its truest gift has been to open my heart to unconditional love and acceptance of my unique self and others. It is my bible. It is my coping mechanism. And it is my healing.
But there is a part of me that is always longing to keep music in my life and at the forefront of what I do. It has now grounded itself in confidence that it no longer needs approval of a grammy award to be what it is for me; to be what it always has been for me in fact. And my entire relationship with my music, especially now is divine, and apart of me. So why is it that I keep leaving it behind now?
I believe that it is always in my pocket, guiding me and when I put it in front of me it will guide me continuously. But maybe i'm afraid to put it out in front of me because I know it is mine. But thats whats beautiful about being an Artist is that even though it was yours, you share it with the world for them to see you was there; you lived. And my music tells a story, of me once where I needed something and of now... where I have found and discovered it. It really is a beautiful thing. I see now that the Universe wants me to remember to never forget my first love.
It all started with music. I used to tell my subconscious that I would never forget to keep my music as my roots. I never wanted to be the kid in music school that changed her career path and left music behind me. I always believed I would become the singer I desired. And even though, I didn't know what it would look like, i feel I see now what it is. I see that its the time i've been waiting for...
All I have to do is remember.
Tuesday, February 23, 2016
Cycles
The "new year" has come and gone. And with it so many changes. As I sit here today I reflect on the major choices I have made over the past few years. I am well aware that many do not understand them, but I have come to trust that I inner stand them. I see that I have lessons to be learned, karma to face, and cycles to commit to. I brand myself the #cyclebreaker, and yet I know good and well that everything works in cycles. And it is up to me to realize that I am always in a cycle. As I attempt to break them, there are some that I will always succumb to. I find myself now in the same one. Again and again, but always with more seasoned experience on the matter.
My fitness weightloss journey, maybe a cycle I am always apart of. Always seeking to understand why a picture of myself will lead me into security or total breakdown. How my image of self is to be rooted in emotional security, may seem petty to most. Possibly, it is my dark passenger.
I have become accustomed to this concept of a dark passenger. And I've come to see that everyone has one. And as I've learned on my journey that all my judgements are a reflection of me, I've been on a quest to find all of my shadows, skeletons and dark passengers. Thankfully, with Jupiter transiting my 12th house, I am feeling this as we speak. He is retrograde right now... expanding memories... flashes of me... and I see now that I have a created dark passenger too. She isn't like all the others that I judge outside of me. She is different. But then... she is just like them. It is weird.
It begins with a situation, a circumstance from childhood that leaves me at the need to please for others. And the need to be wanted by others. To be the prettiest. I believe my dark passenger is an arrogant, psychotic bitch. Someone who thinks full of herself and believes that she and only she should be pleasured for the shit that has been thrown at her.
I LOVE Astrology, for it has fed my need to dig deep. And each transit I enjoy like a hefty 3 course meal. Sopping up all the flavors of the energies and embracing them so much that when its time for the planets to turn.... I don't want it to end.
I know that I will be getting more accustomed to my subconscious mind now... only to get to know my dark passenger and then possibly to say goodbye. Until then, I'm here for the ride. As I feel the same insecure feelings and thoughts creep up in me. They are the same but I have evolved. And now I watch them... listening carefully to the closet that they will lead me to open. What is it that I am hiding from myself? Thats what I desire to know. So yes, I'm happy to say...
I am back on my fitness regimen. I am back on my beauty regimen. An endless cycle that I have to partake in ... and I have many tools. I have much wisdom to know my weak points. But just because I know them... doesn't mean they go away. I do not know if they ever will... Maybe I do not desire them to go away because I have not given them my attention enough. Yes I've learned to combat my weaknesses, but have I learned how to get close to them... to look them in the eye, to observe my weaknesses and love them. Here I feel more confident about myself at this age, and yet I have the same feelings ... they come less.. but when they come they are the same. I'm curious... here's to the continuance of this fitness journey.
I have been sedentary ... its time to now to get the fire burning from the inside. To explore the vixen inside... she's furious that I have not visited.
My fitness weightloss journey, maybe a cycle I am always apart of. Always seeking to understand why a picture of myself will lead me into security or total breakdown. How my image of self is to be rooted in emotional security, may seem petty to most. Possibly, it is my dark passenger.
I have become accustomed to this concept of a dark passenger. And I've come to see that everyone has one. And as I've learned on my journey that all my judgements are a reflection of me, I've been on a quest to find all of my shadows, skeletons and dark passengers. Thankfully, with Jupiter transiting my 12th house, I am feeling this as we speak. He is retrograde right now... expanding memories... flashes of me... and I see now that I have a created dark passenger too. She isn't like all the others that I judge outside of me. She is different. But then... she is just like them. It is weird.
It begins with a situation, a circumstance from childhood that leaves me at the need to please for others. And the need to be wanted by others. To be the prettiest. I believe my dark passenger is an arrogant, psychotic bitch. Someone who thinks full of herself and believes that she and only she should be pleasured for the shit that has been thrown at her.
I LOVE Astrology, for it has fed my need to dig deep. And each transit I enjoy like a hefty 3 course meal. Sopping up all the flavors of the energies and embracing them so much that when its time for the planets to turn.... I don't want it to end.
I know that I will be getting more accustomed to my subconscious mind now... only to get to know my dark passenger and then possibly to say goodbye. Until then, I'm here for the ride. As I feel the same insecure feelings and thoughts creep up in me. They are the same but I have evolved. And now I watch them... listening carefully to the closet that they will lead me to open. What is it that I am hiding from myself? Thats what I desire to know. So yes, I'm happy to say...
I am back on my fitness regimen. I am back on my beauty regimen. An endless cycle that I have to partake in ... and I have many tools. I have much wisdom to know my weak points. But just because I know them... doesn't mean they go away. I do not know if they ever will... Maybe I do not desire them to go away because I have not given them my attention enough. Yes I've learned to combat my weaknesses, but have I learned how to get close to them... to look them in the eye, to observe my weaknesses and love them. Here I feel more confident about myself at this age, and yet I have the same feelings ... they come less.. but when they come they are the same. I'm curious... here's to the continuance of this fitness journey.
I have been sedentary ... its time to now to get the fire burning from the inside. To explore the vixen inside... she's furious that I have not visited.
Tuesday, October 27, 2015
North Node / South Node Axis : Understanding Structure
Been Battling with my North Node / South Node energy when it comes to understanding it and applying it to my life. This is mainly because of the polarity of the signs and the houses. Due to my Libra ascendant, the signs are in their opposite houses and I think this gives the sense that there is true balance to be achieved to the themes of Taurus and Scorpio. In this video by Monique Ascending, she covers the Taurus and Scorpio NN polarity energies and I truly resonate with Both a Scorpio NN and Taurus NN. I theorize this is all related to me because my NN is in Taurus but in the 8th house ruled by Scorpio. In which I feel both energies are prominent in my life and the key lesson here is balance as I continue on.
Watch this Video: Scorpio / Taurus North & South Node
By Monique Ascending : https://youtu.be/vTEiHhvKLZY
Scorpio / (8th house) NN -- Encouraged to be free to try things in an unstructured random way. Put into situations to fend for yourself or figure things out on your own. Weren't taught as much. Previous life... so much structure and ruled in a military way. Was once in a position of authority and abused it. Nothing would run without you. Being loyal to the government. Being loyal to the cause. People accused you as a kid for being "stuck-up" and was presentable and got good grades. Was hard on yourself growing up. In 20s and 30s drawn to a career of being in power but being creative. Drawn to working for non-profit or starting your own business. Helping others. At work, high expectations of the people who work for you. Becoming a Scorpio -- interest in Astrology, Tarot, Occult. Strong curiosity. Loves rules and loves structure naturally. But wants to break out of it later on and break and make your own rules. Scorpio and Taurus share the concept of Power. May go through a phase and breaks you down. Crushes the ego and then becomes the Phoenix Rising. Attractive / magnetic to others. Implement the structure but do it in a fun way! Challenges you to look underneath the surface. May have taken things at face-value growing up. And found that there is something underneath the surface. You gotta dig! Encouraged to think outside of the box and to break free of restriction and confinement.
Taurus / (2nd house) NN -- Encourages you to be more structured. To be someone who can adapt to change and do it in a way in which you are comfortable and take ownership. Not allowing others to steer your emotions. You will become more grounded. Encourages family and children. Focuses on finances!!! Achieving power in status but creating a fulfilling life for others as well in the form of income and others income. As a younging, early in life you are frivolous with money. Showing you to be a more disciplined with money. You thrive when you are disciplined and methodical. Suspicious and sexual -- learning to contain. As a youth being impulsive. Early experiences with Sex. This life encourages you to take feedback and criticism. All the things you are being judged by are the things that are shaping and molding you to be an asset to society!
----------> My Reflective thoughts <-------------
The concept of structure has been one that I have been battling with for a while now. I've been battling with it because i've been more aware of the fact that I have a balance issue when it comes to structure. My experience in life was that I came from a family that pushed structure on me and I obeyed as best as I could but still was kinda left alone to fend for myself and discovered that despite the structure that was forced on me, I was more of an impulsive character.
During my fitness journey, especially in the early stages of it, I desired to put myself into a more structured form. I would do before and after pics and would write out my fitness schedule and food schedule. I loved fitness magazines that would give you your weekly meals and I loved seeing everything in a nice tight structural form that I could follow. But the issue was that as much as I loved seeing it on paper, I could not follow this fitness regimen. I would end up in cycles of planning and then failing to live up to my plans. And then feeling shameful like its so easy, but something is missing from it because I can't seem to stick or commit to it. And i'm a taurus with a Taurus NN, so I should be able to stick to it!
The issue that I was able to "heal" was when I became enthralled by Spinning. What i discovered is that if I loved the fitness routine I was doing, I could find myself looking forward to it and planning so that it fit comfortably into my schedule. I worked and then clocked out and took class. So what made this work more than before? I believe that the feelings and the concept of commitment is more than just pen to paper. Commitment to a structure or a plan requires for you to look deeper to dig into yourself and find the intention and the motivation. This is that Scorpio energy that I had to mold. My early scorpio energy was impulsive. But now it was about shaping it so that i had freedom within structure. That to me is how i'm understanding this Polarity... Freedom within the structure.
To know that I don't have to abide by this schedule helped me to let go of the shameful feelings when I did not take a class according to the plan. The freedom to change my mind in the moment was essential to my development in fitness and my relationship to structure. The love and comfort of knowing that this is a routine that I enjoy was essential because it helped to push me when I do not feel like pushing. The undertones are what represent Scorpio. While the building of structure represents that Taurean energy.
What I've battled the most with, I understand the battles more when I look into the astrology. I am able to see the energies and how they naturally work with me and how I must also learn to work with it. When I embrace the fact that my schedule is different than others, and it has to be this way, I can let go of the shameful feelings of not fitting in or not looking like i have it together. The fun thing about these energies is that I do have it together when I continue to use that NN in Taurus and remember that this is about putting value into my own worth.
What i've battled with also is the 8th house energy because i've understood it to be other people's income. I've understood it thus far to be about Other people helping me get my income and me helping them get theirs. And there is something about that that didn't sit right with me because I feel like i have all of this energy for self, but I have to let go? No, not really. What i'm learning is that the Taurus theme of self-worth and self-income is telling me that I already know what to do when it comes to building an establishment that will work. But if I just build for myself, then i will result to the SOUTH NODE energy. If I build for self, i'm more stuck in the past and karmic cycle. If I learn to build and help others, help others build or build with others, I can fully embrace that 8TH HOUSE / Scorpio energy.
In conclusion, there is a theme of balance all over this. Balance when it comes to the enforcement of power because too much becomes abuse, and too little becomes sacrificial. Balance when it comes to 'sudden changes' because too much change makes me impulsive and less steady / grounded, while too much "stiff/stubborn persistence" will leave me in a tunnel vision and bored and dull. There is a needed balance to build and create structure while allowing room to change!
I've been unsure about my build when it comes to the work that I love to do; music, astrology and cyclebreaking. lol. I've had mental battles when it comes to... do I want to have everything on one channel or should I create various channels? I think the key is to build in the way that I deem to fit and make sense, but be available to change if circumstances change. I see now that my mental anguish is the imbalance of my relationship to structure. Because I acknowledge it as necessary to help me build and be disciplined, but I deeply desire to be free within the structure.
This exploration of the North Nodes are allowing me to see that I must be at the place where i'm Shifting to embrace the NN. Embrace the path that I'm unfamiliar with. Embracing the balance of freedom and confinement; Changes and Commitment. I'm letting go and seeing my south node issues and easy to come habits take a backseat. While its time now to fully inner-stand my North Node direction. Onward we go!
Watch this Video: Scorpio / Taurus North & South Node
By Monique Ascending : https://youtu.be/vTEiHhvKLZY
Scorpio / (8th house) NN -- Encouraged to be free to try things in an unstructured random way. Put into situations to fend for yourself or figure things out on your own. Weren't taught as much. Previous life... so much structure and ruled in a military way. Was once in a position of authority and abused it. Nothing would run without you. Being loyal to the government. Being loyal to the cause. People accused you as a kid for being "stuck-up" and was presentable and got good grades. Was hard on yourself growing up. In 20s and 30s drawn to a career of being in power but being creative. Drawn to working for non-profit or starting your own business. Helping others. At work, high expectations of the people who work for you. Becoming a Scorpio -- interest in Astrology, Tarot, Occult. Strong curiosity. Loves rules and loves structure naturally. But wants to break out of it later on and break and make your own rules. Scorpio and Taurus share the concept of Power. May go through a phase and breaks you down. Crushes the ego and then becomes the Phoenix Rising. Attractive / magnetic to others. Implement the structure but do it in a fun way! Challenges you to look underneath the surface. May have taken things at face-value growing up. And found that there is something underneath the surface. You gotta dig! Encouraged to think outside of the box and to break free of restriction and confinement.
Taurus / (2nd house) NN -- Encourages you to be more structured. To be someone who can adapt to change and do it in a way in which you are comfortable and take ownership. Not allowing others to steer your emotions. You will become more grounded. Encourages family and children. Focuses on finances!!! Achieving power in status but creating a fulfilling life for others as well in the form of income and others income. As a younging, early in life you are frivolous with money. Showing you to be a more disciplined with money. You thrive when you are disciplined and methodical. Suspicious and sexual -- learning to contain. As a youth being impulsive. Early experiences with Sex. This life encourages you to take feedback and criticism. All the things you are being judged by are the things that are shaping and molding you to be an asset to society!
----------> My Reflective thoughts <-------------
The concept of structure has been one that I have been battling with for a while now. I've been battling with it because i've been more aware of the fact that I have a balance issue when it comes to structure. My experience in life was that I came from a family that pushed structure on me and I obeyed as best as I could but still was kinda left alone to fend for myself and discovered that despite the structure that was forced on me, I was more of an impulsive character.
During my fitness journey, especially in the early stages of it, I desired to put myself into a more structured form. I would do before and after pics and would write out my fitness schedule and food schedule. I loved fitness magazines that would give you your weekly meals and I loved seeing everything in a nice tight structural form that I could follow. But the issue was that as much as I loved seeing it on paper, I could not follow this fitness regimen. I would end up in cycles of planning and then failing to live up to my plans. And then feeling shameful like its so easy, but something is missing from it because I can't seem to stick or commit to it. And i'm a taurus with a Taurus NN, so I should be able to stick to it!
The issue that I was able to "heal" was when I became enthralled by Spinning. What i discovered is that if I loved the fitness routine I was doing, I could find myself looking forward to it and planning so that it fit comfortably into my schedule. I worked and then clocked out and took class. So what made this work more than before? I believe that the feelings and the concept of commitment is more than just pen to paper. Commitment to a structure or a plan requires for you to look deeper to dig into yourself and find the intention and the motivation. This is that Scorpio energy that I had to mold. My early scorpio energy was impulsive. But now it was about shaping it so that i had freedom within structure. That to me is how i'm understanding this Polarity... Freedom within the structure.
To know that I don't have to abide by this schedule helped me to let go of the shameful feelings when I did not take a class according to the plan. The freedom to change my mind in the moment was essential to my development in fitness and my relationship to structure. The love and comfort of knowing that this is a routine that I enjoy was essential because it helped to push me when I do not feel like pushing. The undertones are what represent Scorpio. While the building of structure represents that Taurean energy.
What I've battled the most with, I understand the battles more when I look into the astrology. I am able to see the energies and how they naturally work with me and how I must also learn to work with it. When I embrace the fact that my schedule is different than others, and it has to be this way, I can let go of the shameful feelings of not fitting in or not looking like i have it together. The fun thing about these energies is that I do have it together when I continue to use that NN in Taurus and remember that this is about putting value into my own worth.
What i've battled with also is the 8th house energy because i've understood it to be other people's income. I've understood it thus far to be about Other people helping me get my income and me helping them get theirs. And there is something about that that didn't sit right with me because I feel like i have all of this energy for self, but I have to let go? No, not really. What i'm learning is that the Taurus theme of self-worth and self-income is telling me that I already know what to do when it comes to building an establishment that will work. But if I just build for myself, then i will result to the SOUTH NODE energy. If I build for self, i'm more stuck in the past and karmic cycle. If I learn to build and help others, help others build or build with others, I can fully embrace that 8TH HOUSE / Scorpio energy.
In conclusion, there is a theme of balance all over this. Balance when it comes to the enforcement of power because too much becomes abuse, and too little becomes sacrificial. Balance when it comes to 'sudden changes' because too much change makes me impulsive and less steady / grounded, while too much "stiff/stubborn persistence" will leave me in a tunnel vision and bored and dull. There is a needed balance to build and create structure while allowing room to change!
I've been unsure about my build when it comes to the work that I love to do; music, astrology and cyclebreaking. lol. I've had mental battles when it comes to... do I want to have everything on one channel or should I create various channels? I think the key is to build in the way that I deem to fit and make sense, but be available to change if circumstances change. I see now that my mental anguish is the imbalance of my relationship to structure. Because I acknowledge it as necessary to help me build and be disciplined, but I deeply desire to be free within the structure.
This exploration of the North Nodes are allowing me to see that I must be at the place where i'm Shifting to embrace the NN. Embrace the path that I'm unfamiliar with. Embracing the balance of freedom and confinement; Changes and Commitment. I'm letting go and seeing my south node issues and easy to come habits take a backseat. While its time now to fully inner-stand my North Node direction. Onward we go!
Monday, October 19, 2015
Musica
I've been in agony mentally about my music lately. I want to do my music but I have so much uncertainty on what I should be doing next.
I want to write more songs and I want to work on my old songs. I am seeking to work on music this week. Integrating it back into my life amongst the other forms of media that I'm really into.
I have to work on some meditation and relaxation to help center and ground me. I feel out of balance. Mixed in with fairly contented feelings but feeling constantly like I'm missing something.
I'm fearful about my memory. The ability to remember small things and big things. I've been an avid smoker for a while. Of course this would catch up with me.
What I'm focused on right now in my life is healing, balance and creativity.
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